LIFE ISN'T ABOUT FINDING YOURSELF. LIFE IS ABOUT CREATING YOURSELF.

Thursday, May 2, 2013

Clean Eating

Since I started my "live life a little better" quest a couple of months ago, I have established some clean eating rules that I follow.

Considering one of my undergraduate degrees is in health & human performance, I have always known what's good for your health and what's not but I definitely have a weak spot for food and found it hard to stick to "the rules".  Well, after a couple of years feeling out of shape, soft, unhealthy and quite frankly not liking the way I looked in a swimsuit or my under-roos, I decided it was time to start taking better care of this one and only body I have been given. 

Here are some of my clean eating rules:

● absolutely no alcohol, NONE!!
● no more coffee
● do not add salt to foods
● consume 20 grams protein by noon
● consume over 50g protein in 1 day
● 64 oz or more of H2O daily
● no soda what-so-ever
● do not order take out...just don't!
● zero Chinese (this one is HARD!)
● buy FRESH veggies & fruit, no cans
● cut down on the white bread
● eat whole grain when possible
● steam your veggies
● avoid foods with preservatives
● do not add sugar to cereal
● NO cookies or sweets at that
● OK, you can eat sweets but in moderation
● eat fruits & veggies everyday
● put down the lays chips
● starches = no good
● processed foods are gross and bad
● do five to six meals a day (roughly 400 calories each)
● butter on everything is a no-no
● drink lemon water
● never ever skip breakfast
● don't eat foods with ingredients you can't pronounce
● NO fast food joints
● artificial sweeteners are bad

xoxo
bj



Tuesday, April 30, 2013

Get Dat Ass

Ladies!  What is one part of the body that can make you feel strong, sexy and badASS...that is correct, your booty.  Some unfortunate women have no butt and that's a real bummer.  So some of you may be asking; well Brittany, how do I get an ass?  Simple: work it.  Here is one of my Legs & Core workouts that I do with my sister.  Try to keep your rest minimal between sets & reps and go heavy.  Try to lift in the progression of  60%, 65%, 70% & 75% of your max if possible.  If you don't know your max, you can still use the concept of increased weight with each set.

You will be feeling the burn.  ENJOY! 
xoxo bj



Wednesday, April 10, 2013

37 years

HAPPY ANNIVERSARY to my lovely parents!  37 years together is a pretty amazing thing folks!

This morning I woke up and logged onto my facebook.  I saw my mother had posted a little blurb on her wall about this special day.  The 5 small sentences were said perfectly but I began to think that they hardly do justice to the years they have spent together.  All that they have faced, experienced and overcame.  All the loved that they have shared, memories created and great accomplishments made. 

37 years is a lot of time spent together.  Really think about it... that is 13,505 days, 324,120 hours and 19,447,200 minutes spent with one person that is your spouse, best friend and greatest supporter.  You look for comfort and encouragement from that person.  You tackle life's challenges together and if you're lucky enough, you get to share it with a family you create with one another. 

I am here all because a 19 year old girl and 26 year old boy fell in love.  My son, Cruz, is here because of them too.  My whole family, the people my heart is invested in are all here because of those two people.  We are made up of pieces of them and their families.  Our mere existence is because of them.  It is amazing how that love has branched out and spread in so many directions.

So, here we are:  37 years, 5 children, 4 grandchildren and lots of really wonderful memories made!  I am proud to call you my parents and the family you have created.  Happy Anniversary Darwin & Genny.

Song lyrics have always stuck with me through the years.  Certain ones trigger certain memories; music is awesome like that.  Here is a song that came from my memory bank this morning when I read my mother's facebook post:

COLLIN RAYE “ONE BOY, ONE GIRL”
Songwriters: Smith, Shaye / Springer, Mark Alan

He finally gave in to his friend's girlfriend
when she said "there's someone you should meet"
At a crowded restaurant way cross town, he waited impatiently
When she walked in, their eyes met,
And they both stared
Right there and then,
Everyone else disappeared, but

One boy, one girl,
Two hearts beating wildly,
To put it mildly, it was love at first sight.
He smiled, she smiled, and they knew right away
This was the day they'd been waiting for all their lives.
For a moment the whole world
Revolved around one boy, and one girl

In no time at all, they were standing there in the front of a little church
Among their friends and family, repeating those sacred words.
The preacher said "son, kiss your bride"
And he raised her veil
Like the night they met,
Time just stood still, for

One boy, one girl,
Two hearts beating wildly,
To put it mildly, it was love at first sight.
He smiled, she smiled, and they knew right away
This was the day they'd been waiting for all their lives.
For a moment the whole world
Revolved around one boy, and one girl



Wednesday, February 20, 2013

Upper Body/Core Workout

Here is another one of the workouts my sister and I completed.  We did this on Monday night and it proved to be a tough one.  Enjoy!

UPPER BODY/CORE
(increase weight with each set, last set should be heavy!)
*DB= dumbbell

DB incline bench 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
DB shoulder press 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Bench 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Deadlift 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Standing Tri Pulls 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Bent over DB rows 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
DB flys 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Lat pulls 1x15, 1x10, 2x5

(minimal rest to get heart rate up)
Dips 3x15
Pull-ups 3x8
Plank 3x30 secs
Push-ups 3x10
Stability Ball Pikes 3x15

Monday, February 18, 2013

Health, Healing & Working Out

First and foremost... I know I have been a bad blogger over the last couple of months but I feel like I have a somewhat valid excuse for my hiatus.  I encountered some health issues that are still unexplained.  In early October I had a sudden onset of vertigo, lightheadedness, 60% hearing loss in my right ear, tinnitus, blurred & lagged vision, disorientation, nausea & vomiting, headaches and complete disequilibrium.  It was scary stuff.  I felt like I was stuck on a tilt-a-whirl all day long.  It was also a lot like being so completely intoxicated that I lost the control of my balance and concentration.  I am certain strangers that saw me thought I was drunk in public.  I had to hold onto walls to walk or stand.  I looked out of it.  I could barley function some days and had to lay in bed.  I would never wish for anyone to experience those things.  To put it plainly: it sucked balls!

The symptoms sent me to the ER once and then I had lots of doctor/hospital visits for testing.  After a CT scan, MRI with contrast dye IV, blood work, audiology screening and physical examinations: nothing.  No answers.  My results came back negative for thyroid disease, MS, Parkinson's disease, brain hemorrhaging and so many other slightly frightening possibilities.  The scariest part happened in early January when I started to have near black out episodes accompanied with panic attacks.  I went back to my ENT specialist and he prepared me for the possible chance of an aucoustic neuroma.  My symptoms were very indicative of this particular type of brain tumor that develops on the 8th cranial nerve.  In the course of 5 days I did a lot of researching, praying, crying and preparation.  If this was what was causing my symptoms, then at least I had an answer.  I would be able to put together a plan of how to tackle it and move on with life.  The 36 hours that followed my contrast dye MRI were the slowest hours of my life, but I finally got my results: normal.  Thank God for no brain tumor but I still felt completely unsatisfied because I had no answers, no resolution and no plan of action.
 
Three weeks ago I finally got the referral to see a neurologist for further studying of my brain and nervous system but I decided to take matters into my own hands before I got that phone call.  I was so tired and frustrated from 4 months of getting no where and spending thousands of dollars.  I started looking into other methods of medicine and healing.  I found my way to River Falls Chiropractic and had a consultation with Dr. Melissa Kolb.  I felt really good after my first visit.  She took a large amount of time with me to go over my symptoms, tests that had been administered, results, took x-rays, performed a spinal scan and asked what I wanted to accomplish through chiropractic care.  This was the moment I finally broke down in tears and told her that I just wanted to feel normal again.  I just want to be able to stand and walk without feeling like I was going to fall over or pass out.  I had reached my wit's end and couldn't keep up my tough persona any longer.  I wanted my life back.  I wanted a good quality of life back.

After Dr. Melissa had an opportunity to review my medical history and scans, we developed a treatment plan.  She felt very confident that the combination of the structural defects in my spine, environmental factors and stress I had encountered were contributing to some of my symptoms.  She didn't promise any quick fixes.  She simply said she thought she could help alleviate some of the things I was experiencing.  I agreed to commit myself to her plan.  I would go in for 3 adjustments per week for 3 weeks, get another spinal scan, reduce to 2 adjustments per week for 3 weeks and then down to 1 adjustment per week for 3 weeks and end with another spinal scan.  We also discussed tracking my nutritional intake, hours of sleep and getting me back into mild/moderate exercise.  I was 100% committed to giving this a full hearted effort.  I started Jan. 30th.  I have a daily journal where I write down everything!  I log what time I wake up, what I eat & when, how much of something I eat, any symptoms that arise through out the day and my workouts.  We concentrated on getting 40 grams of protein consumed before noon, 64 or more oz. of liquid daily and having well balanced meals.  I also took the initiative to cut out alcohol, coffee and minimize sugar & sodium intake.  I did my first workout in over 4 months on the 30th as well.  I was scared about working out again because when I tried running back in October I literally lost my balance and fell over.  I also got extremely nauseated.  For someone with my athletic background, it was heartbreaking and devastating.  I didn't know if I would ever be able to return to vigorous workouts, road races or let alone even jog again.

I am so, so, so happy to say that I have seen a dramatic improvement in how I feel in the course of the last 2 weeks.  I don't know if I can contribute getting better to just one thing; rather, I believe it was the combination of everything I decided to change.  I have gone a FULL WEEK without any vertigo or lightheadedness.  It has been 2 weeks since my last headache.  My vision problems have decreased as well but I will be going in to get my eyes checked in the event of possibly needing glasses.  My hearing has not returned and I fear that it has been permanently damaged but that is one thing that I can live with.  I have yet to try running.  My workouts have been confined to resistance training.  I am going to attempt running very soon though!  I will have to give an update once I try. 

I was so scared that I was going to have to live the rest of my life with those miserable symptoms but I am finally seeing relief.  I have gained my positive attitude back and feel like I can start working out like I use to.  I am thankful for a wonderful sister whom I have the best relationship with.  She has been my motivator for workouts.  We are in our 3rd week of workouts at 5 days a week.  She pushes me and has helped make me believe in myself again.  She continually inspires me and I hope that I may inspire others to never give up, no matter what!

I decided I wanted to share one of our workout with you guys.  I design them and my sister provides the kick ass home gym for us to complete them in.  Let me know if you have any questions on any of the exercises.

LEG/CORE WORKOUT 

(increase weight with each set)
Squat 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Single Leg Squat 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Step Ups 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Leg Press 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Leg Extensions 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Calf Raises 1x15, 1x10, 2x5
Leg Curls 1x15, 1x10, 2x5

Circuit set
(minimal to no rest between exercises and sets)
2x16
Lateral Lunges
Russian Kicks
Jump Lunges
Med Ball Knee Toss
Med Ball Leg Lifts
Med Ball Heel Kicks
Oblique Push-ups

Single leg squat (start)

Single leg squat (finish)

Step ups

Sunday, December 2, 2012

A Time For Everything

I have never been a bible thumping, pew preaching, holy rolling catholic but I do have faith and believe that sometimes finding comfort or an answer comes from looking towards that faith.  I find myself recalling Sunday morning sermons and the words that my ears absorbed from years of sitting in the front pew at mass.  All those years ago when I first heard readings and gospels, I didn't immediately grasp the understanding of those words.  As I pass through life and encounter different situations, I suddenly have moments where I finally understand them.  This is one of those small verses from the Bible that has clicked and made sense lately.

peace & love
bj

Ecclesiastes 3:1-7
New International Version (NIV)
A Time for Everything
3 There is a time for everything,
    and a season for every activity under the heavens:
    a time to be born and a time to die,
    a time to plant and a time to uproot,
    a time to kill and a time to heal,
    a time to tear down and a time to build,
    a time to weep and a time to laugh,
    a time to mourn and a time to dance,
    a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
    a time to embrace and a time to refrain from embracing,
    a time to search and a time to give up,
    a time to keep and a time to throw away,
    a time to tear and a time to mend,
    a time to be silent and a time to speak,



Tuesday, November 27, 2012

A Reason

Here is another one of my favorite quotes that has helped me through out the years in trying to understand why certain people come and go in my life.  Sometimes, I really don't know which category someone falls into but I always try to remember that their presence in my life was/is meaningful.  Perhaps, they were placed along my path to teach me something, make me happy, love me, hate me, build me up or tear me down.  I may not ever know why some people exist(ed) in my life and that is OK.  I do not need to know their purpose for being there.  I just know that each experience and encounter I have along the way has helped me see who I truly am or who I am meant to be.  Having a life full of oh wells is a hell of alot better than a life full of what ifs and I will always welcome an opportunity to take a risk in allowing someone to walk into my life for good, bad or both.

Reason, Season, or Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.

Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.


Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.


LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.


— Unknown

peace & love
bj